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I went to Ocracoke Island

Ocracoke Island – the death place of the one and only Captain Blackbeard.  

I had the privilege of spending the 4th of July week in Ocracoke Island, NC.  There, I got to enjoy the beach, local artisanal shops, tourist trap shops, some of the local restaurants, and even the holiday parade.  

Monday

I arrived by ferry on Monday evening, only having to pay a dollar to walk on.  I managed to make it onto the last ferry of the day.  The ride is usually around three hours long but I guess these people wanted to go home since we got to the island in about two and a half.  

Monday night, me and a couple of my people decided to go out to Springer’s Point and sit out here for a few hours in the breeze by the ocean with some music playing.  While the vibes were unmatched, I got personally devoured by mosquitoes.  Between the three of us out there, one person got maybe one bite, the second got about seven or so, and I got 41; I counted.

Tuesday

Tuesday happened to be the birthday of one of the people in my party so we spent part of it celebrating.  I spent a large part of Tuesday on the beach trying to hide from the sun.  The water was a little cold to start with and the waves were rough, but it was refreshing.  While the salt water stung my eyes a little, I got to enjoy some fresh fruit under the Shibumi Shade (wind stabilized shade).  

Tuesday night was primarily spent at one of the local watering holes: Howard’s Pub.  Me and a couple others moseyed on over and had a couple cocktails and some lovely french fries. 

Wednesday

Wednesday morning, we went to the town and checked out some of the local vendors.  Trying to fight a mild hangover that worsened throughout the day, we visited the Village Craftsman, an artisanal shop with pottery, handmade jewelry, some musical instruments, glassware, metal work, woodwork, and even ships in bottles.  Following the Village Craftsman, we got ice cream from the Ocracoke Ice Cream and then checked out Ride The Wind Surf Shop.  

After the surf shop, which was a tad pricey, we were invited to get lunch at Dajio.  This restaurant has a Shrimp Hour special for outdoor seating between 3-5pm wherein one is able to get ½ pound of steamed shrimp for cheap.  So to Dajio we went and got shrimp and cocktails.   After lunch, it started pouring rain and we proceeded to go home and I took a fat nap for the next 2-3 hours.  The 4th of July fireworks were supposed to be on this day, but were sadly cancelled due to weather complications. 

Thursday

On Thursday, we returned to the beach.  We spent the day playing around in the water, which was rougher than the other day.  Some of the people in my party decided to launch each other over the waves in a playful manner.  I got to fly over the waves twice.  The first time was really fun but the second time I landed flat on my back against the water, which proceeded to sting for the next twenty minutes.  

Thursday night, we went to a restaurant called Flying Melon to celebrate the birthday of another party member.  This is one of the few fancier restaurants on the island, but boy did it not disappoint.  Almost everything on the menu is either fish/seafood or vegetarian so if you don’t like fish and aren’t vegetarian, this might not be the place for you.  I thoroughly enjoyed my meal and got to try an espresso martini for the first time. 

Friday

Friday was of course the 4th of July.  I wanted to go to the one main coffeeshop on the island called Ocracoke Coffee Company.  This place opened at 7 a.m. and we showed up at 11 minutes after with an hour long line.  My party members had plans to go off-shore fishing at 8 a.m. so we had to scrap the idea and try again another day.

Instead of fishing, I joined some other party members back at the beach. After the beach, we hightailed it over to my party’s family friends’ place to watch the parade.  The annual 4th of July parade on the island is made up of local businesses and inhabitants driving their decorated vehicles, mostly golf carts, around the island with music blaring and tossing candy to the children watching.  

Saturday

On Saturday, we heard there was a tropical storm brewing which would make leaving the island the following day very difficult and dangerous.  We decided to leave early.  After packing all of our things up, some of us decided to go back into town for coffee and more trinket or souvenir shopping.  We then gathered over by the Variety Store to grab some lunch from the Old Salt Sandwiches and Such food truck.  I got a very delicious chicken sandwich and I swear that was the most perfect looking sandwich I have ever seen.

Perfect looking chicken sandwich in foil wrapper with crinkle cut fries and Ketchup in the background.
Chicken sandwich from Old Salt Sandwiches and Such food truck in Ocracoke Island, NC. Image by Sophia Dutton-Rodkin.

The ferry ride and drive back home was uneventful and calm.  We all made it unscathed and safely.  Despite having to cut the trip short, it was a very enjoyable experience.  While I didn’t get to do everything I wanted to, I had a blast and I guess I’ll just have to go back someday.  

— dj dragonfly

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Playlists

DJ Dragonfly’s June Favorites

In a world where taste changes all the time, even day to day, I think it’s pretty cool to document the current favorites every now and then.  Looking back at these old favorites can make us see the growth we have had as people.  Another upside to these records is we might rediscover some gems that we might have forgotten about.  

I am someone who loves to share and exchange music.  I love discovering new artists and seeing who my friends like to listen to.  Everyone’s music taste is different, I would find it difficult to believe that there could be two people with the exact same taste.  

I love to expose people to new music and to my favorites and so I have made a playlist of my current favorite songs.  I have to say there is some variety and I like to think that my music is fairly well-rounded but that is up to my readers to decide.  Some of these songs have explicit content, so fair warning to everyone.  

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Miscellaneous

This Too Shall Pass

Having a hard time? Finding no joy in your favorite things anymore? Feel like things just keep getting worse and worse? If you feel like any of these things is accurate, you should know that it’s okay.  Sometimes, everything goes wrong and there’s nothing you can do about it.  I know it isn’t always a comfort but these things happen sometimes.  

If any of my readers are anything like me, then good and bad things usually happen in big clumps.  I can have weeks or even months of almost nothing bad happening and suddenly a storm of bad luck rains down on me.  Likewise the other way; sometimes I just have consistently bad luck and suddenly the sun comes out and I have a slew of good things coming my way.  

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Miscellaneous

How Do You Use Music?

Everyone is different: tastes, habits, needs, wants etc.  It stands to reason that everyone does things differently and treats things differently.  Music is no exception.  So how do different people use music in their lives?

Some people use music for a soundtrack to their lives while others use it as background noise and I know people who don’t really even like music.

I personally use music as a soundtrack to my life.  I carefully pick and queue exactly what I need to make the moment feel a specific way and make sure it fits the vibe.  Sometimes I let my playlists shuffle and I get a surprise but it almost always is still part of the soundtrack style I strive for.  

If I have a bomb fit on and I feel really good about myself, I’ll usually have music in my earbuds that reflects that.  Same with if I’m driving to campus on a rainy autumn morning.  I need the music I listen to to reflect how I feel and how I am as a person.  This is what makes life rich for me.  

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Classic Album Review

A Public Theatre Review: “Soulless and Friends” (2023)

Content Warning: This album contains some explicit language.

Most Popular:

Personal Favorites:

  • “Anime Intro”
  • “Fine!”
  • “Sober”
  • “THE HUNT”
  • “My Caustic Ego”
  • “Babe ur So Exciting”
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Local Music

Local House Show Venues

Have you ever thought to yourself, “Where can I go to see the artists before they become popular?”  There are many venues, big and small, all around the NC State and Raleigh area.  I’m going to focus on the latter: small house venues.

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Playlists

Women in Bands

When we think of the legends of Rock n’ Roll, some of the names listed might be Elvis Presley, Jimi Hendrix, Robert Plant, Mick Jagger, Axel Rose, Slash, Eddie Van Halen, Jon Bon Jovi or Kurt Cobain.  A simple Google search would show mostly men popping up.  I checked and found only two results with any women.  Unfortunately, this isn’t surprising.  Music, especially rock, has tended to be a male dominated field.

“I grew up in a world that told girls they couldn’t play rock and roll.” – Joan Jett

Since her statement, there have been many noteworthy and successful women in the rock music scene.  Sadly, there is still a long way to go.  As a woman in the rock music scene, I find it particularly important to have someone to look up to and to be inspired by.

I made a playlist with some bands of various popularity and time periods who have women in strong roles.  Many of these bands have women in the front-person or singer’s position but not all.  I’ve included women as drummers, bassists, guitarists, keyboardists and even fiddle/violin players.

Content Warning: Some of these songs have explicit content

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Playlists

Steering into the Skid

We all have our good and bad days.  Some days, you feel like skipping down the street or singing in the shower while others make you feel like the whole world is against you.

Oftentimes when I’m feeling the former, I like to listen to happy and upbeat music.  I like to be embraced and supported by similar energies. A good example of this would be “Walking On Sunshine” by Katrina & The Waves.

When it comes to feeling the latter, what should one listen to?  If someone is sad and down in the dumps, should they listen to “Washing Machine Heart” by Mitski?  Likewise if someone is upset or angry, should they listen to “Bleed the Freak” by Alice in Chains? Would it be better to listen to someone happy and upbeat to facilitate that emotion?

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Miscellaneous

Music and Language

Whether English or Spanish or Swahili or Japanese, learning a new language is always going to be a challenge.  One of the best ways to help with language learning is to immerse oneself in media content with that language being the primary.

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Movie Review

“Hair” (1979): A Review

CONTENT WARNING: This review, film and/or soundtrack contains themes of war, sexual expression, illicit drugs and racial inequality.

Musicals: some love them, some hate them.  I can’t claim to be a big fan of musicals until we get to the specific category of old musicals.  “Hair” would fall under this category.

“Hair” started as an off-Broadway musical in 1967 and moved to Broadway the following year.  Later the musical was released on film in 1979 with the same title.  This story is an anti-war drama with comedy sprinkled in and follows a good ole’ Oklahoma boy being shipped off to Vietnam as he spends his last couple days in New York City.  There, he meets a group of four hippies: Berger, Jeannie, Hud and Woof. They turn everything upside down for him and change his perspective.